When we think of love, we often relate it to physical closeness or coincidence of places. However, today we bring you the story of the founders of Etrueloves, from the perspective of Keneth MacGillivray, which seeks to inspire many other love stories.
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When love defies borders...
Kenneth and Paula met on an online dating site and from the first moment, he was captivated by Paula's smile and beauty. Thus began the love story between a Canadian and a Colombian...
Their love story defied borders and cultures.
But what struck him most was her healthy lifestyle and warmth, which quickly piqued his interest.
Kenneth and Paola began their relationship in early 2020, just as the world was beginning to face the COVID-19 pandemic. Although they both looked forward to meeting in person, travel restrictions and work responsibilities postponed that long-awaited meeting until June 2021.
“The wait was very long, but Paula was worth my patience and we communicated for over a year during the pandemic,” says Kenneth.
The wait is faced with a lot of determination, something that many would have considered difficult, as patience and mutual love were the foundation that allowed them to overcome this ordeal.
What does it mean to marry a Colombian woman?
When Kenneth finally arrived in Colombia, he discovered much more than a beautiful country. He witnessed a culture deeply rooted in family values:
“I discovered from my observations that Colombian culture is very traditional and Colombian families are very family oriented, with many large monthly gatherings. The gatherings are not fancy, they are rather simple, but well attended and with many participants.”
One characteristic that Paula greatly admires is her loyalty, something that reflects a very strong cultural value in Colombia.
For Kenneth, this culture of love and family taught him that, beyond romantic gestures, what really matters is the genuine connection that is cultivated through mutual attention and respect.
Marrying a Colombian woman means entering into a relationship full of feelings, warmth and deep loyalty. They are committed partners, who appreciate honesty and open communication, always willing to build a solid and balanced relationship. In addition, the sense of joy and vitality they bring to daily life is contagious, making each day full of special and authentic moments.
The differences that strengthen...
Kenneth tells us about the marked differences between life in North America and Colombia, mainly in terms of cost. In Colombia, daily life, from food to entertainment, is considerably cheaper compared to Canada or the United States. This allowed Ken and Paula to enjoy experiences together without the financial worries.
In addition, Ken notes that Colombian women highly value the quality time and effort that North American men are able to devote to their partners.
“What I value most about being married to Paula is my wife's dedication to our life and our happiness. Paola is very hardworking, very conscious of lifestyle costs and very attentive and loyal to our relationship. Our communication is very strong and she only asks for my equal participation in our relationship,” he says.
Something that also surprises Kenneth is how the Colombian woman is careful about her physical appearance, and concerned about her home, her house at all times, whether visitors come or not.
“Paula loves to entertain her guests, but she's equally happy to go out biking or watch a movie together in the evening and relax.”
Advice for those who are looking for partners from other cultures and countries
When we asked Kenneth the question about what advice or tips he would give to men or women who are looking for a meaningful relationship, regardless of distance? His answer was clear:
“Knowing the family's culture and traditions is critical. Honesty and communication are key in any relationship, but especially when there are cultural differences.”
Paula appreciates clarity and sincerity in conversations, something Ken has learned throughout their marriage.
One of the biggest lessons they have learned from their relationship is the importance of emotional connection and equal participation. Although language barriers can be a challenge, they have learned to overcome them through constant communication and mutual understanding.
Love: Deep connection
If Kenneth had to describe his marriage in one word, he would choose "connected“. Despite initial distances and cultural differences, the emotional connection they have cultivated has been the foundation of their happiness.
The spouses make decisions together, plan their lives together and maintain constant communication, which has strengthened their bond and allowed them to build a solid and balanced relationship.
Kenneth and Paula's story reminds us that love knows no boundaries. It is a deep connection that, when nurtured with patience, respect and dedication, can overcome any obstacle.
If you are looking for a meaningful relationship, where emotional connection and mutual respect are the pillars, don't miss the opportunity to find love across borders. Like them, you too can live an authentic love story.
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